The agent demos that survive contact with production all treat memory as an architecture, not as a context window. This is the three-tier pattern — episodic, semantic, procedural — that separates the lifecycles, read paths, write paths, and failure modes the naive single-store approach conflates. Read paths, write paths, the consolidation pipeline that earns the architecture, where each tier physically lives, eight anti-patterns to retire, the 5-stage maturity ladder, and a portable design that lands cleanly on LangGraph, AutoGen, the OpenAI Agents SDK, the Anthropic Claude Agent SDK, and the Microsoft Agent Framework.